Teaching Safety to Middle Schoolers
When it comes to safety, the only bad conversation is the ones we do not have.
When it comes to safety, the only bad conversation is the ones we do not have.
The middle school years bring more independence. During these years, your child will begin to assert more independence. Activities that were once primarily family oriented will now include more friends and their families. Through these changes, it is imperative that your child has an understanding of some general safety tips. As we explore some topics to discuss with your child, begin thinking about the best times to have these very important chats.
Internet Safety
The topic of Internet and phone safety is likely not a new one for your pre-teen. They have likely discussed the issue at school; nonetheless, covering this topic in your own way makes it much more personal. Start by talking about the accounts and websites your child is accessing. It is very important for your child to only have social media accounts that you are aware of and can monitor. Sharing passwords with you is an important step, so that you also have access to their information. Also, they should have specific guidelines about who they are and are not allowed to talk to online. Some of the most important rules include:
Drugs and Alcohol: What Does My Child Need to Know?
Sadly, it is not uncommon for preteens to know someone who is or has used drugs and alcohol. This could even be their peers. For this reason, this age is an excellent time to talk about expectations and values associated with drugs and alcohol. Having a firm foundation built before they may experience the pressure of trying drugs is critical. Consider the following points before beginning your conversation:
Discussing Abuse: What Should I Share?
Many parents discuss abuse with their children before the middle school years, but with them shopping more independently and visiting their friends´ homes more often, this can be a great conversation to revisit.
Bullying: Identity Questions and Growing Judgments
During the middle school years, children are trying to figure out who they are. They are transitioning from their identity as a child into a young adult. Many preteens are faced with scrutiny from their peers. To put it bluntly, the middle school years can be torture for teens and preteens who are the victims of bullying. Discuss how and when to respond to bullying using the following tips:
Relationship Safety:
As we have already stated, the middle school years are a time of developing closer relationships with friends. FOr this reason, relationship safety is another vital topic to cover.
When it comes to safety, the only bad conversation is the ones we do not have. There are many more safety issues that can help your middle schooler transition from childhood to young adulthood with greater understanding and clarity.